Divorce Yet Together: Ongoing Personal Relationship and Co-Parenting Among Divorced Parents.
Divorce Yet Together: Ongoing Personal Relationship and Co-Parenting Among Divorced Parents.
In this study, Dr. Selenga Gürmen and her colleagues aimed to 1) understand whether a divorced couple's parenting relationship is affected by ongoing personal and emotional involvement, 2) expand the concept of ongoing personal and emotional involvement between ex-partners as protective factors, and 3) investigate how ongoing personal relationship relates to the perceived quality of co-parenting among divorced families.
It was found that the relationship quality between ex-spouses was associated with parents' perceptions of the co-parenting relationship. The results show that feeling personally and emotionally involved with the ex-partner increases the likelihood of perceiving higher quality in the co-parenting relationship.
This study also found that there is a gender difference in regards to dyadic perceptions of ongoing relationship and coparenting relationship.
The results showed that when ex-husbands reported being personally and emotionally involved with their ex-wives, ex-wives perceived the co-parenting relationship to be of high quality.
However, the same was not true for the opposite situation. This was explained within the study as ex-husbands' ongoing personal and emotional involvement was recognized and valued by ex-wives and was linked to their reports of the quality of co-parenting.
As an overview of these findings, the study shows that ex-partners' perceptions of the quality of co-parenting are closely linked to their ongoing personal and emotional attachment to their ex-partner.
References
Gürmen, M. S., Huff, S. C., Brown, E., Orbuch, T. L., & Birditt, K. S. (2017). Divorced Yet Still Together: Ongoing Personal Relationship and Coparenting Among Divorced Parents. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage.